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I'm not sure what to identify as?

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by North, Jan 2, 2014.

  1. North

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    Hi!

    I've been identifying as gay for a while, but I'm not sure anymore that it fully fits. I recently started to do some research into fully understanding what it meant to be polyamorous, and I think that might fit pretty well too. I believe that i could be in romantic relationships with more than one guy at once.

    More than one GUY. I know for sure that it wouldn't work out with a girl.

    Is this... really possible? Has this happened to anyone else? Also, does anyone know what I should identify as? :help:
     
  2. BookDragon

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    It's possible and it still makes you gay.
     
  3. NaNtastic

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    Human Sexuality is Complicated... - YouTube

    Watch this YouTube video, that might help! I hope someone who is in the same situation will find this thread and react to you, he would be able to help you best. And I believe you're never 'the only one' :slight_smile:
     
  4. Just Jess

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    You know, sometimes, I personally am not a fan of "identify as". I don't identify as a male-to-female transsexual lesbian can we add any more syllables. I am a gay woman.

    If it were me, I would just say "I'd like to see more than one person at a time". If someone said "so you're poly" or "so you're polyamourous", I would just say "sure!".