Gay guys pulling straight guys...easy?

I've heard stories about gay guys getting straight guys to sleep with them .
I heard one where this guy that was gay got this straight guy to give him oral sex and later on they regularly did this in private they never had sex but only gave each oral . the straight guy said he wasn't gay but enjoyed giving guys oral sex and started doing it with other guys as well

 

that sounds like a closet case!

 

I agree i think he is I've got other stories if you guys want :icon_bigg

 

I've met guys who say they routinely bed straight guys. I've even met guys who say they EXCLUSIVELY bed straight guys. Personally, I've never had any experience doing so, and have no interest in doing so. Why would I want to have sex with a guy who doesn't want to have sex with me?

Lex

 

after living this way my whole life over 41 years now I've been around enough for this to know straight men have no attraction to other men. in the same way that gay men have no attraction to me at all! I found it a confusing nightmare untill my parents finally told me the truth about myself upon my insistence of being female and other medical facts I confronted them with. I am happy to know I am June, not John and the right men desire me and make my life complete. Why if you are a gay male, would you want men who don't want you? Seems best to stick with other gays.... June

 

Yeah, it happens. And they do enjoy it, but I guess it's because it's a novelty for them, or because it feels good regardless of who it's with. Straight men will still respond well if you know what you're doing, as gay men would often respond well if a girl had some really good tricks up her sleeve.

I've never pursued straight guys but have been with a few after they've approached me. To tell you the truth, the only difference if they're straight is that it's usually a one-off thing and they're not going to want to come back for more. They're no better or worse than gay men at any act, so it's really not that different from the gay guy's end.

 

That's pretty disrespectful, IMO. Most of us would climb the curtains if someone said that the difference between a gay guy and a straight guy is a submissive girlfriend with big boobs...

With the number of posts we get here reading something along of, "OMG I kissed a guy/had sex with a guy/was hit on by a guy, WHAT DO I DO????!!!!!11 AMIGAYYYY???!!!!111" your friend should be made aware that what seems harmless to him may terribly confuse the straight guys he goes after. Not a very nice thing to do, honestly.

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I have heard this with some straight girls that they are bi when they drink beer .

 

this may be very true and unfair if you ask me. I laugh sometimes and once posted on here that as far as straight men go, the way to his heart is through his stomach, by the way into his pants is beer! 1 guy on here absolutely loved it when I said that and he suggested I add that to my profile. Really its very true because in my experience they're always trying to get into my pants that's for sure! Starting new years eve I made the mistake of putting out for a man in the middle of a divorce in his 20's who I've been friends with him and his wife for a year and a half and now he seems to be just showing up unannounced with beer wanting to go all night long! has nothing to do with that he is bi or gay because in fact he is straight and I know this by his sex style and he accepts me as June a female which is really true. I don't look at it as turning guys out when I do agree to have sex with them. as normal heterosexual couple having sex. I just hide the things that have not been altered yet from them and we just work with what I have to offer. so I think people should stick with having sex with the type of men or women that are attracted to you making the wise choices of what is available! Just my thoughts, June

 

This. You guys are kidding yourself if you believe otherwise.

 

I'm with Lex on this. The effort spent seducing a straight guy would be better spent seducing a guy who wants it.

 

Why do some gay guys enjoy seducing straight guys is because you got something you thought you couldn't have and it makes you feel powerful ?

 

Well, that's how Kinsey got his 37% number.

Like I've posted before, I've heard of guys sitting in those suburban Holiday Inns in their bars and lounges at night who are on a business trip and have a few drinks with another business traveler who is away from home and the wife, and they do the deed. Why doesn't this surprise me? Hey. They're right there, they both have rooms, and it's FREE. One morning, I was at a Holiday Inn having breakfast and was headed to the airport, struck up a conversation with a middle aged guy (sort of my type) to give him some drink coupons I couldn't use as I would be leaving, and he and I got into a slightly longer conversation. I knew his city somewhat well and he handed me a card to give him a shout the next time I was in his city. I didn't because I thought it would have been stupid to call out of the blue as in "Remember me from ... ?" Oh, yeah ... no wedding band on that guy. Very virile, too. That's one of those situations where I didn't know how the guy was wired. I would have probably found out if I wasn't headed for the airport that morning and staying longer. There wasn't much to do in the area, day or night.

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I think that, if sexuality is not mentioned, and the parties sort of "pass," then they can operate in denial mode and go ahead with it. I've messed around with a few married guys and they are usually very similar to you, in age, looks, and general presentation, that it's less of a leap than going for a guy who is very into the scene but very attractive, a real young guy, or calling up an escort or masseur. The whole thing sort of blows over better.

 

I've heard this said before, but only as a joke, not as a serious proposition (What's the difference between a straight guy and a bisexual guy? About 2 beers).

The closest real world thing I've ever heard about it is from a housemate when I lived in AZ. He worked security at one of the local gay bars. He told of male-female couples coming to the bar (it was that kind of place - if you were cool and wanted to have fun you were welcome regardless of gender or orientation), mostly around college age. The guys were usually more or less looking freaked out and terrified that someone would touch them/talk to them/look at them and had obviously been dragged there by their girlfriends. They would be there for an hour or an evening and then leave. And then the guys would come back to the bar a few days or a week later - by themselves.

Like Lex and Mogget I don't really see the point of trying to seduce a straight guy and also find it rather offputting since presumably they don't want to be seduced. It'd be like a woman trying to seduce me knowing I'm gay. Not what I want and that should be respected.

Beyond that, I've found over the years that if I know for a fact that a guy is straight, then he instantly stops being of any interest to me. It's like my libido just reclassifies him into the same folder as it places women and he pretty much vanishes.

Todd

 

I'm reading the posts and I don't think it's deliberate. We see something we like and that person sort of registers. If I'm in a situation where my looking longer is of no consequence, meaning I'm not peeing in my backyard, I'll do it ... for fun, to be "bad," or to see what reaction it gets. It's sort of understood that the person may not be fair game.

The reactions, and only from looking a few nanoseconds too long, vary from being indifferent or oblivious (most of the time) to being flattered (as in "thanks, I sort of know I'm handsome") to being a little wigged out, indicated by a wince or quickly shifting their gaze.

 

If a "Straight" guy sleeps with another guy he's not so "Straight"!

 

^ Well, he's not a Kinsey 0, but he could be a Kinsey 1 or 2, for those who like those classifications. For guys in the slammer, in an isolated setting, or on a very long business trip, it CAN happen. Most guys won't cave in, but some will.

 

These are exactly the types of situations that come to mind whenever I hear that phrase "sexuality is fluid", since I think *most* people, regardless of sexuality, can enjoy an experience or two with someone outside of their orientation under the right circumstances. I've heard many stories of gay men who "turn straight" after a few drinks, and end up making out or sleeping with female friends, but otherwise have zero interest in the opposite sex.

For me, it would be one beer, since I'm an extreme light weight

I'm the same way: when it comes to straight guys and lesbians (or someone already taken), I automatically add them into the "unavailable" list and lose all interest in them before moving on. It's not a conscious choice, either: it just happens, maybe as a defense mechanism? That's one reason I have a hard time relating to all these people who make "straight crush" threads and such, since the concept is so alien to me.

Also, wouldn't there be a greater risk for the gay person getting the wrong ideas in his head and becoming attached than the other way around? It does seem like "seducing" a bisexual or gay guy might be the healthier option, assuming it isn't just for the ego boost on the part of Don Juan.

That's really not for you or anyone else to decide...