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Don't know if I'm straight or bi

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by johnmark88, Jan 10, 2014.

  1. johnmark88

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    Ok here's the deal:
    I've always been a pretty feminine/gender nonconforming guy. I'm ok with it because that's who I've always been. I've also always considered myself straight. When I got to college a few years ago I got into watching gay porn. The only thing that really interest me in it is the bottom part of anal. I'm not really into the kissing, sucking, etc. I became really interested in bottoming, so I decided to discuss pegging with my girlfriend (really just a friends with benefits type of deal) however she thought that because I'm pretty feminine and the fact that I just asked her to peg me she thought I was gay and wouldn't do it.
    So I turned to a craigslist to experiment with a guy. I bottomed for him, and I will admit it felt awesome. Easily the best orgasm I ever had. My dilemma here is that I was not attracted to him at ALL, in fact I would say Im no more attracted to guys than the average straight person. So I guess my question is, am I bi for wanting to bottom again for another guy even though I wont be attracted to him? I would love to get pegged by a girl, but as of now I've had no luck in that area, and my love prostate stimulation has only grown.

    P.S. I've bought dildoes and other sex toys, but its not the same as someone else doing it.
    P.S.S I also watch straight porn, though now its almost all anal.
     
  2. BookDragon

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    Liking stuff in your butt doesn't make you gay, even though it seems like it probably ought to. As you quite correctly identified, being gay means being attracted to someone of the same sex, not having a random thing inside you!

    ---------- Post added 11th Jan 2014 at 09:56 AM ----------

    EDIT: Having said that, I don't imagine you'll have an easy time trying to persuade other people of that fact...
     
  3. johnmark88

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    Yeah it is pretty hard. Like I said being feminine guy doesn't help either :/