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i think im self-sexual??

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by heckarooni, Jan 16, 2014.

  1. heckarooni

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    ok so i think i might be self sexual which is a sexuality i didnt even know existed until today but idk im just kind of happy but do u think that since i just learned about it today that its too early for me to decide that i identify as this?? because i kind of feel like it is but ive just been struggling with my sexuality for so long and i just want to be done struggling
     
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    I didn't think so, either.
    Could you give some more details?:dry:
     
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    well idk like i just am not attracted to anyone and the idea of having sex with anyone makes me uncomfortable and i mean maybe im just asexual but i find myself sexually attractive???
     
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    Asexuals are kind of rare...
    I think you should think about it more.
    If it were me, though? I dunno. Asexual probably is the best label for you right now.
    Check AVEN. http://www.asexuality.org
     
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    There is no such thing as having too much self esteem
     
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    We're not too terribly rare, us asexuals! j/k I'll be alone forever :frowning2:

    Um, when you say you find yourself sexually attractive do you mean you become physically aroused at the sight of yourself? Or is more like you think you are good looking? Either way, there are some good discussions about this on AVEN which might prove helpful.