Why is it so hard to talk to guy?when i talking to girl its not long until we start making out, but when im with a guy i tense up quick and end up messing up the conversation. im not out so its already hard to meet another guy, but i really want to learn how to talk to a guy. So can someone help me.:bang:
Don't over think it, be yourself. I know that's tired advice but it's the best advice I've been given.
For me, I usually go into "rational" mode and try to ask standard questions like interests, hobbies, opinions. Asking questions lets the other person talk more, giving you time to collect your own thoughts and maybe chip in with something you know. Also, guys seem to be less talkative than girls in general, so you don't have to worry if there's some silence. Now for guys I like, that's a much harder story, especially if I don't know them well.
