Hey, I am a 15 year old male and have been questioning my sexuality for the past few years, I would always say to myself "I'm not gay, I know I'm not gay" but recently I have been coming to terms with my sexuality. I think I'm gay because I always feel a tingling sensation when I see an attractive guy and feel masturbating to gay porn more comfortable and arousing than when i used to do it to straight. I also can see myself being in a relationship with a guy and not a girl. I dont want to sound odd or mean but I was told that this is a phase and a part of puberty, which I dont want to be true because I now am happy with being gay and feel more comfortable with it. So my question is, from what I have told you do you think this is just a phase? Also sorry if this is confusingly written .
Based on what you have said, I don't think it's a phase. Of course, it always can be. Folks our age can go through these things, but the feelings you describe sound genuine to me. If you're happier gay, then to hell with being straight! Welcome to the club!
I kinda felt the same way when I was realising my sexuality. I'd say if it makes you happy then pursue that lifestyle.
