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Should I try lesbian dating secretly?

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by Bubblyeater, Jan 20, 2014.

  1. Bubblyeater

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    I had always thought that I only like guys. When I watch porns or movies like Friends with Benefits, my focus will be more on girls and Mila Kunis is totally hot :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes: Until one day, I had a major cruish on a tomboy who is very cute. Then I realised that I could be bi. I always wanted to have a normal marriage with a man in the future, and have kids too..At the same time, I really want to know how it feels when I'm dating a girl. I want a butch girlfriend but I'm not prepare to have any future with her. Doesn't it hurtful for her?

    The question is: Can I just try to have a lesbian relationship? I never want to hurt someone's feelings. :frowning2:
     
  2. ClosetedGuy

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    I think you should try them both. That way you can know the truth.
     
  3. fortheloveoflez

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    you can try it but for the other parties' sake be honest that you aren't looking for anything long term
     
  4. Go for it. You never know until you try I suppose. Just tell her you aren't looking for anything serious.
     
  5. itsonlyrelative

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    ^^^ This. You should give it a shot if you feel like it is something you are attracted to, but really make sure that you are clear about your intentions for any relationship you have with a girl from the start.