Hi, When I hit puberty my sexuality was definitely pointing towards straight. I had many sexual encounters with my girlfriend when I was 14. Although I couldn't cum in front of her. She dumped me for my best friend and went with him. Then tried to come back to me like nothing had happened. I then met another girl when I was 15 and once again I could get an erection easily but it took her ages to make me cum like 40 minutes... It was ridiculous. I have had relationships since with a similar story. I am now at a stage where only really my fetishes turn me on sexually. I don't feel its possible for me to be romantically attracted to a woman. But when I see men I can't look at them and I like the look of their muscles and facial features. However I don't believe their penis would do much for me. At the moment I would define myself as Homo-romantic/Heterosexual I am confused as hell and I have been chatting up this bird from Australia we have done sexual stuff on the cam but sometimes I struggle to maintain an erection. But I have no problem if I am looking at porn as long as my fetish is involved. She knows that my fetish is pretty much the only thing that works for me as I have told her. I am meeting her in Australia in june and I seriously don't want 2 years to go down the line and for me to break her fucking heart. What do you guys think?
Hi, and welcome. One thing that isn't very clear to me is what sort of sexual attraction/arousal/stimulation you have when you're thinking about guys. When you masturbate without porn, do find yourself thinking about guys? or about girls? When you watch straight porn, are you paying more attention to the guy or to the girl? Have you watched gay porn? Do you get aroused? Are you able to get off quickly to it? More or less quickly than to straight porn? If you can think about the above and talk about it, it will be easier to give a clearer answer.
Just watched some gay porn, I felt something not sure what it was didn't get an erection at all then after about 2 minutes got bored. But the thing is when ever I get close to a girl I feel really akward. but then I can masturbate to woman fine as long as my fetish is involved?. I do feel romantic feels towards men I have been around men and fantasized about kissing them. But I feel that their dick does nothing for me. And I don't feel romantically attracted to woman What am i? What do i do? ---------- Post added 25th Jan 2014 at 03:01 PM ---------- I also went into a strip club and failed to get an erection when the bird was on top of me. That was embarrassing as fuck
Consider that the pressure of obtaining an erection (for either gender) might itself be turning you off. I'd imagine people can't get aroused easily when their mind is constantly screaming "Get an erection! Get an erection!". Well, I'm no doctor. Though you should explore your romantic feelings, they've always (for me) been the most important part of my sexuality. (Also, when you say "fetish", what do you mean?)
I have a giantess fetish. Its fantasy. I like the idea to be the size of a bug and a sexy woman to crush or eat me
Not the answer I was expecting . No worries though, the great author/activist Dan Savage once found out someone had a fetish for getting birthday cakes thrown in their face. Needless to say, he took that person up to his hotel room and smashed a cake in his face. Yours might be a bit harder, but there are both bug costumes and hulk like costumes out there. I'd say it's doable...
