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questioning sexuality

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by Bluebonnet, Jan 26, 2014.

  1. Bluebonnet

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    Im a 36 year old woman and i haeve always identified as straight but lately been questioning my sexualityand im not sure how to handle it is this normal at my age ? ps all the relationships i have had with men have been very bad. I just need some insight. And pls no rude comments.h
     
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    It certainly isn't AB-normal if that's what your worried about. It's not something everyone goes through though.

    What made you start questioning?
     
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    I just started thinking abt how men treated me i have never had a strong male rolemodel in my life my mom raised 3 girls by herself. And i dont know if this helps but i fwel more emotionally connected to women than men i still have small attachment to men
     
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    If you think it's important it helps.

    So you feel more emotionally attracted to women, but how about physically?
     
  5. Rose27

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    Hi Bluebonnet- There is no "normal" or "right" time to go thru this. Lots of us who post in the Later In Life section have come out in our 40's,50's, 60's and older. Just because you are questioning does not mean you are gay/bi sexual. Sexuality can be very confusing. On EC we try to be supportive of each other on our journey to find out who we are and to be who we are.
     
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    No i dont have any attraction physically or sexual

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    Ty fir all the insight and comments