CRUSH on possible STRAIGHT (?) hair dresser?! HELP please?

i'm absolutely twitter-pated by this women... every time I see her I cannot stop looking at her... (2 sessions so far) but at the same time I'm so intimidated that I look away quickly when we make eye contact... which I hate.

today I had an appointment and we ended up talking about a lot of things in regards to social issues/family/sexuality

we were talking about how strict my family is and somehow the convo led to her talking about how she did the opp of everything her father told her not to do just to break his beliefs haha

She stated how she would always say she was a lesbian to them to push their boundaries... or how she'd bring her african american friends over to her house when her father said he didn't like it. She talked about how she had a million piercing and has 4-5 tattoos and is getting a sleeve now... (you don't see that often..?)

We talked about how horrible it is when people judge others by sexuality etc etc etc she is very very liberal and her mother is very liberal as well.. but we both agreed on how we can't really talk about hte topic of homosexuality much with the parents since they freak out. .

She has a love interest atm... idk if i didn't hear her right or what.. but she first said how she met "them" through a friend (the friend was a girl if I remember correctly) and that they were the friends roommate?

at the VERY end she said "him" i'm not sure if i'm reading into it... but idk she's not official with this person i don't think... and i do see her every 8 weeks so this is a fail anyway...


BUT in the end of it all when she walked me up to the desk she wrote her number down and stated how I could text her anything about hair or anything else? I mean i know my bestie has her number too.. .so this prolly means nothing.. but secretly I felt a lil good about it..

during the haircut we talked about tattoos and I told her i'd ask my friend who her tattoo artist was bc he was amazing and she said yess please do!

I texted her a few hours after hte appointment with the pic of the tattoo and the artists name... shej ust replied "Hey lady! That is amazing! I've heard of him! He did some work on one of my friends. Thank you so much!"

I don't see a point in texting her bc it would just make me look stupid i think.. and juvenile.. (she's 5 years older)


idk if it was the dim lighting or what.. but when she gave me her number her eyes were so dilated and I couldn't help but make eye contact (broke it soon after bc i'm a pussy)


WHAT SHOULD I DO. WHAT DO YOU GUYS THINK?

apparently a few weeks ago she told my friend (who was getting her hair done) that she was intimidated by me?

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What she looks like:

1. very fit but also fem at the same time... amazing legs (she runs and boxes etc)
2. Blonde hair shoulder length.. with gorgeous big blue eyes
3. She looks liek a fucking barbi..
4. her style seems very laid back and chill
5. She as a person is very laid back actually.
6. as;ldgjal;skdjfa;lskdjf she's beautiful...
7. I know she likes guys.. but do you guys think it's possible she likes women as well?

---------- Post added 28th Jan 2014 at 06:59 PM ----------

I actually don't know if my friend has her cell number tooo sooooo I guess i'll find out later.

---------- Post added 28th Jan 2014 at 07:03 PM ----------

OH AND when we were having those conversations I stated how a women tend to be more fluid sexually compared to men (we were talking about how historical events on how armies checked to see if someone was gay or not and how it's harder with women... and that's why I said the fluid thing (laughing the whole time.. I felt nervous) and she laughed with me and agreed.

 

Ahhh i just don't know how to ask her wihtout being awkward... idk how to hangout with her lol she is 5 years older and yeah she's in her mid twenties and i'm in my early twenties... it still doesn't make it any easier...
BUT AHHHH yes that's my issue... i know hairdressers are known for doing that.. so who actually knows ya know?! do you think there might be a possibility? p.s thank you so so much btw

 

haha I find older women more attractive tbh so i guess you just havn't met the right girl yet haha
But yeah she's 25 turning 26! I'm turning 21 soon so yo ucan see why i'm even more intimidated by the idea of hanging out with her.. it's just harder when it's your hair dresser bc you don't know if they're just talking to talk or actually meaning it... but i mean she gave me her number so i suppose that counts for something right? sjdlkfsj

 

Well hey you'll thank your awesome genes 10 years from now haha I think you guys just being older and more "experienced" in life makes you more intimidating.. plus I can't just ask her to go out for drinks (which is casual and comfy since Imean... liquid courage... hah) since I won't turn 21 until june -_-

But I know she goes to my gym! I've seen her once from afar and wasn't sure if it was here but couldn't stop looking her way lskdjfksd
Maybe i'll ask my friend to see if she has her number too... because this maybe just something nice she's doing ya know? She's one of the best ones there.. so who knows.
I've always felt that older women aren't that interested in younger women because we're not on "their level" -_- but maybe i'm wrong? who knows.
Yeah, idk how to give it a try... sdjfklsd (bare with me... i'm not the type of girl that approaches people.. often..or is even interested in someone often)

IF you were in my place and you had that whole convo that i stated in the post.. etc what would YOU do in all honesty?

 

hahah that cracked me up! I have no idea when she gets on break...esp since I justh ad a haircut it would be pointless to go to the salon..but ah she gave me her number before i left saying I could text her with questions about hair or anything else! I texted her later that day to give her the name of hte tattoo artist we were discussing and if you read the end of my post you'll see how she responded later last night! I just don't see a point in texting back... so i'm hoping i'll run into her? I need to not get nervous and just be relaxed sldkjfklsdf

 

Oh i didn't mean it sexually..I just meant life wise in the sense that older individuals tend to think they are more experienced in life/or are actually more experienced in life.. which makes them more intimidating because you don't want to fuck up haha
But yeahh.. I think it's too late to respond to her text response so i guess i'm gonna hope to run into her? :I blarg. I wish I was that good at asking people to hangout haha i've become even more socially inept because of i've been in my books/research ughslkdjflsjdflskdgklajdf;lasjkdf;aldjksf

 

UGH I just want to hangout with her.... but idk sldkjfls this was her response to the tattoo pic I sent her for her to know yesterday:

"Hey lady! That is amazing! I've heard of him! He did some work on one of my friends. Thank you so much!"

I never responded -_- but now i wish i did to keep a convo going *facepalm* WHY AM I SUCH A PUSSY

 

What would you say in response? (the text is from tuesday so this just makes it worse ugh)


p.s thank you for putting up with me haha

 

ahh you're wonderful!! thank you so much :3

Hmmm should I mention anything about my uber late response? i'm just afraid to say something and come out stupid because again.. she did say she sort of met someone? slkdfls why is this so difficult.