Hello I'm Riley, I'm currently not sure if my bi boyfriend and i are ever going to have traditional sex, like ever. We've talked about it but we're both terrified that he'll get limp. So i'm not sure if he's really bi or just not attracted to me. With out the experience i'm not sure if i really am Bi or lesbian. Also i'm sorry for my grammar and such
Maybe he's too nervous I heard when guys are nervous they have trouble you know getting it up . Why do you think you might be lesbian or bi ? Maybe you should try to help him not be so nervous maybe by guiding him how to touch you or kiss you during before having sex .
I've had more experience with girls, but I've always been a top. Even now we get hot and heavy, but i'm the one casing it. I've tried casing him to step back and let him take over. Then he just sees that as me not being in the mood.
He's probably nerves about topping I would be too if I was with a girl and she usually topped and then told me to top . But I think you should guide him in how top you I know it sounds weird but maybe you should he probably just needs a little push or a big push
Alright ill give it a try. but last i was over he told me he was sacred of my vagina...i didn't know how to take that .
Wow I wouldn't know how to take that either I would ask why he was scared just to find the root of the problem
Don't be afraid to communicate. Nothing is better than communicating to your partner when being intimate. It takes away a lot of the nerves and helps guide them where you want them to go so you avoid being dissatisfied, as well as felling guilty that you are.
I think I'll have him sit down and stare at it, then tell me whats scary about it. ---------- Post added 28th Jan 2014 at 09:32 PM ---------- Yes i do but i'm afraid that he'll be upset from "inexperience". He's told me that a few times. I don't want him to feel lesser for it.
