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Gay, Asexual, and Heteroromantic...and very confused.

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by faustgoethe, Feb 1, 2014.

  1. faustgoethe

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    Hey. So, I am gay, asexual, and heteroromantic...and I am very confused, as the title so eloquently put it. I mean...it's not even that I am confused. I understand perfectly well. I am gay and heteroromantic with no sex drive. This, I understand. I know that logically, I should date an asexual lady. Still, this is all quite strange to me. I am 20 years old and I never really thought about it until now. There is a girl I am absolutely smitten by. At the same time, I cannot see myself sleeping with her. Not even kissing her. It's all so strange. Life was so much simpler when I didn't have to worry about this. Oh, those were the days. Ah, right. Uh...advice? I don't really know what I am asking advice on specifically. Any would be grand.
     
  2. BookDragon

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    "I know that logically, I should date an asexual lady" - Why?