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Is a straight man that has sex with a transsexual woman still straight ?

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  1. stocking

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    I read one a forum that people were saying any man that has sex with a transsexual woman that still has a penis is not straight and is either gay or bi
    In my opinion I still think the guy is straight because they still look like a woman and I see them as women but some people said if the man enjoys sex with with them they are not straight , what do you guys think he straight , bi or gay
     
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    I think that this topic is NOT up for debate
     
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    Having sex with a woman doesn't make a man less straight, regardless of what characteristics the woman has.
    So yes, he's still straight.
     
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    A trans* woman is a woman, so yes, he would be straight. The parts do not matter, since she identifies as female.
     
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    Exactly.
    Yes, he's straight..
     
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    I agree that's why I found it weird that most people were saying he's gay and even a gay guy came on several in fact and said they are not attracted to trans women .
     
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    Definitely. And he's cute. And, I'd challenge anyone to show the picture of that couple to a random person, and have them correctly guess (without them already having seen the story) which one was born as a girl and which was born as a boy
     
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    imo...not every woman has a vagina. so just because she is pre-op (or even if she never decides to transition) she is still a woman. if you feel you are a woman in your heart and the female gender is what you identify as, then you're a woman no matter what. so if a straight man wants to sleep with a self-identified woman not matter her parts or past, than yes he's straight.
     
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    No one would be able to tell


    I agree I would still think she's a woman with out the part or not I get upset when people call trans women men because their not .
     
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    I agree! If a man only has sex with a woman (no matter her body) he is still straight.
     
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    I think it goes the same for a lesbian too but like she's still lesbian but that's another story
     
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    it irritates me too when people do that. i think it's disrespectful to their identity and who they are as people. i think it's pure ignorance and childish. i was watching a youtube video featuring a beautiful transgender woman named Janet Mock and they show pictures of her when she was little and mentioned that her given name at birth was "Charles" and of course from ignorant people in the comment section someone went on to call her that. "nice to meet you charles." it just really f**king set off a fire in me. people don't want people to disrespect them based on where they've come from or because of the color of their skin, etc. and they sit here and pull stuff like this :bang:
     
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    That was from the Piers Morgan show right? Yeah, that was pretty disgusting the way they handled her. I don't know if her birth name was given in the book but really, it's not something that needs to be told to people at all on national television especially.
     
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    I hate when people are that disrespectful their just full of crap .
     
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    Look how happy they look that's one pretty woman :slight_smile:
     
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    no it was an interview for the grio's 100 making history. she decided to share her old given name. i stupidly decided to read the comments :/ but i heard about that interview too! it's just ridiculous.

    agreed!
     
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    There was an interesting comic strip I saw online once, a gay guy talked about how he had a thing for transmen; like he won't find someone attractive before he transitions, but as soon as he is taking hormones it's like a switch is flicked on for this guy. My point is NOT that you aren't trans before you are taking hormones; it was just an example of a guy who, even though he was attracted to people who used to identify as female, is still very exclusively gay. So I don't see why the converse is not true.

    So to answer OP, the man can definitely still ID as straight. He could also choose to ID as straight and queer, if he feels that that fits him. Just like there's no one way to be gay, there's no one way to be straight.
     
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