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I'm a transman, she's a straight girl...

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by xAlexzanderx, Feb 3, 2014.

  1. xAlexzanderx

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    Hi, we'll I'm a transguy, I just came out and I'm not allowed to physically transition yet do to my parents(I'm a minor)..

    To get to the point, this girl, (Maddie) I know from my gymnastics gym.. I've known her for a year now, and I love her. We're friends and we see each once a week, maybe twice. But I don't know if she likes me back.. For reasons.

    1. She's Christian and I don't know where she stands on LGBT things.
    2. She sees me as a shy girl, and not the man I am.
    3. If she doesn't like me back, I destroy our friendship.

    But we'd be amazing together, we have so much in common, she's just amazing.. I have never felt so.... She's just so... Right for me. I think about her every day, I've loved since the day I met her, and I can't take it... But I still want to be friends if it doesn't work out..
     
  2. Krilky

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    I know this will be heartbreaking to hear but chances are telling her would destroy your friendship. Most of society has...different...thoughts on transgender folks than we here at EC do.

    I'm really really sorry to say that :frowning2: