I feel as if I am always going back and forth on if I am bisexual or not.Sometimes I feel straight,sometimes I feel right down the middle in being bisexual, and other times I feel somewhere in between. Is this unusual?
Not unusual at all. Lots of people who are bi find that their attraction varies over time. It sounds like you aren't 100% straight and you also aren't the "right down the middle" variety of bisexual. You don't have to be right in the middle to identify as bi, though. It sounds like you could fall somewhere under the bisexual umbrella: http://bistander.files.wordpress.com/2012/02/the_bisexual_umbrella_by_drynwhyl-d4gq9ji.jpg
That's cool, just go with the fluctuations. I think this happens a lot. I had a similar experience for a while.
Hey dude, Im in a relationship with a wonderful woman, we are to be married in april. Im still coming to terms with being somwhere in the bicurious bisexual realm. She is the first person ive been with sexually and i love her so much. I too, get confused on why my attractions flucuate. I guess ive always been attracted to both but looked more for women as a partner. My to be wife is also somewhat bi and has been open. She has given me opportunity to explore but i dont feel i need to act because i want to remain faithful to her. Id be curious what you thought of my post and if you could give me insight from another bi point of view?
