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Unsure as usual

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by Str8tLAboy, Feb 13, 2014.

  1. Str8tLAboy

    Str8tLAboy Guest

    So, I've posted on here before about my uncertainty about whether I am gay or straight. Unfortunatly, when I posted, I was going through this period where all I could think about was men. Within a week, I was back to thinking about only women. About two weeks ago, I began to think about men again and it got so intense that I was getting this knot in my stomach. I began to fantasize about guys I would pass on the street and now whenever I am walking, the first thing I look at is a guys crotch area. I am really confused now, because I thought the first time was just a weird phase but now i am not so sure. I have no problem being gay, I just don't want to go through life having these episodes of attraction to different sexes. I would like to just be attracted to one sex.
     
  2. volleyball girl

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    It's ok if you're attracted to both sexes. there's absolutely nothing wrong with that :slight_smile: Maybe you should try going out with a guy? It could help with the confusion. But don't worry. Follow your heart. I am sure you'll be ok :slight_smile: Maybe they're not episodes. It could be possible that you are attracted to both sexes. You never know until you try right? :slight_smile: