So ive been thinking im gay fire like 2 years and I've read a bunch of shit on it I think I've been in denial but at the same time I don't think I am because I tried to masturbate to guys (in my head nit actual porn because I read you can't define sexuality with porn) and I could get somewhat hard but then I give up no urge but when I do the same with girls I can't stop what's the deal?
Hmm? That's a bit of a toughy. If you're having an easier time fantasizing about women than men odds are you're either heterosexual or bi with a fem preference. This of course is not set in stone. Only you can really know what your sexuality is. May I ask though, why is it you've been thinking you might be gay?