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Im confused

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by Daniel003, Feb 21, 2014.

  1. Daniel003

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    Hey
    Im new to the site but have been questioning myself a lot lately. I noticed a while ago that id
    Didnt feel the same about guys as my friends did a while a go and shortly after, realised i liked girls. I dont really have many people i can talk to about it and i go to an all girls school which has a very few openly gay people. I dont really know what i like properly but i know i am not straight.
    Any thoughts or advice?
    Thanks
     
  2. HarryPotterFan

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    Well, how do you feel about guys?
     
  3. Daniel003

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    I dont really notice them when im out and i dont ever really feel attracted to them
     
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    None at all? Ok how do you feel when you see a pretty girl?
     
  5. Daniel003

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    Excited, nervous, shy
     
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    Sounds like you're definitely not straight. You may be a lesbian(sounds very likely for what you've said) You don't need to rush to a label.
    When you think about someone you might like to kiss and cuddle with, is it a guy or girl that you imagine?
     
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    Girl always and i know i should rush for labels but i want one just so that i am sure
     
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    Well, based on your lack of attraction for guys and your definite attraction to girls, I'd say you're a lesbian. BTW, I was 15 when I was certain I was a lesbian, so don't listen to anyone who says you're too young to know for sure.
     
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    i wont
    thanks, i new i wasnt straight i just didnt know what i was
    my brain was leaning towards girls and not guys but i wasnt sure
    also at 15 im fine with finding out for definite its just letting other people know
     
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    Hannah, just wanted to pass some info along about a web series I discovered last week. It's called Out With Dad and is about a 15 yo Canadian girl figuring out her sexuality and coming out. It's excellent and I thought you might be interested.
     
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    thanks
    will check it out
     
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    There's no need to worry! What it sounds like to me is that you're bisexual with a preference for girls, or lesbian. Both are totally okay. I know exactly how you feel, as you and I are the same age, so if you ever feel like talking about it I'd love to help you out!
     
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    cool, that sounds great
     
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    Me as well. My best friend(girl) who I had been feeling attracted to for a while asked me out last year and even though that relationship ended badly I found out the truth. I know I shouldn't rush to labels but it would be nice to kiss a girl and a guy just to know for sure. I'm all for rainbows and pride parades and I want to express myself so if you want someone else to talk to...:slight_smile:
     
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    Sure thanks
    Ive never been with a girl before but i know im attracted to them where as ive kissed a guy and im not attracted to them
     
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    You're lucky then.