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boys make me fluttery, but that's it.

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by treespoon, Feb 21, 2014.

  1. treespoon

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    I'm thirteen (fourteen in a month, haha), and I'm really confused about what I could identify with.
    Boys have always made me nervous and fluttery and a wreck, and whenever they are around I feel like they should like me even if I don't like them. But beyond that... I can't even imagine kissing a boy, VERY MUCH LESS SO having sex. It's gross to me. Relationships are fine to think about, but kissing and all that... no thanks.
    Girls however, are less so like that. I don't usually get butterflies or get nervous or feel like they should like me around them, but if I imagine kissing a girl I know well (my best friend, cough cough) I get excited and happy and full of lovey-dovey feelings. I just like it.
    So what AM I? I'm so confused. Everything seems like a jumbled mess and I can't pick my way through my feelings. Sorry for the long paragraphs, but can anyone help me?
     
  2. HarryPotterFan

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    Well, there are some people who have romantic feelings for a certain sex, but not sexual feelings. So you might be someone who could fall in love with a guy, but not want to do anything physical with him.