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Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by southerngirl15, Feb 26, 2014.

  1. southerngirl15

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    confused but wanting something more

    so I've always had some questions about my sexual orientation. I'm female, 21 and have always dated guys. i like guys there is no question in that I'm just not sure if i ONLY like guys. i am more frequently thinking about girls. i catch myself flirting with girls i just meet or even one of my best friends that has had her experiences with girls. i don't know if I'm just curious or i actually want to pursue her or some other girl. i live in tx and its not like its the most accepting state of gay, lesbian, or transgender people. plus i actually have a long term boyfriend right now. he has no clue about this. i just want to find a way to see if these feelings are real or just curious..what do y'all think?
     
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  2. FireSmoke

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    Are these only thoughts or do you feel some emotions when you stay (for example) near a girl?
     
  3. silverhalo

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    When do you most think of girls?
     
  4. setnyx

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    hard to guess at this point but there are others here thst are going through the same things. this is a great place to help you figure yourself out.
     
  5. southerngirl15

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    I guess i would say i feel emotions too.

    ---------- Post added 26th Feb 2014 at 03:44 PM ----------

    when I'm by myself mostly. i start to think about it a lot

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    yeah, just trying to find some help! haha thanks!
     
  6. silverhalo

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    Do you think about girls when you are with your boyfriend?

    What would you like to happen?
     
  7. FireSmoke

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    I think you can make your thoughts clear only living and meeting some girls (also only like friendships go well) and so, you can examine your own feelings. But I suggest you: be spontaneous! Don't think too much! Let your feelings are free to express oneself.
     
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