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What is my identity exactly?

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by PruneTracy, Mar 4, 2014.

  1. PruneTracy

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    So, as the title suggests, I am here as I am not sure what my sexual identity is. I personally don't believe it's as simple as "Bisexual", but if the general opinion suggests otherwise, then fair enough.

    Anyway, about a year and a half ago I started to question my sexuality, I never truly felt that I was straight. I came to the conclusion that it is more likely that I am bisexual, and I am definitely both comfortable and accepting of who I am because I am a very open-minded person.

    However, I also began questioning whether it really is my identity, or if it is as simple as being bisexual. I lean more towards the opposite sex, especially in terms of a relationship as I am not interested in same sex relationships.

    I am not interested in being in a relationship with another man, however I have no qualms about same sex intercourse and it is something I would certainly like to experience.

    While exploring my sexuality, I also found myself to be attracted to transgender people (Male to Female) which kind of added another dimension of it for me, especially considering I would even contemplate a relationship with a M to F transgender. I can only assume this is because I don't see a woman who used to be a man, I simply see someone I am attracted to.

    Finally, while watching porn during that time of exploration, I also discovered a fetish I never knew I had. While watching some bisexual porn, I was particularly aroused by women with strapons and have been fascinated with the idea of it ever since.

    So, as you can see, taking all that into consideration, I am not sure my orientation is that black and white. What says you? What is my sexual orientation?

    If you you scrolled down because tl;dr

    - Interested in relationship with women only
    - Not interested in same sex relationship, but same sex intercourse
    - Find M to F transgender people attractive
    - Have a fetish for women wearing strapons
     
  2. FancyGummy

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    Heteromanitc bisexual?
     
  3. PruneTracy

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    I had never heard of the term before, but having since googled it, it does sound about right.