Some more questions, before I leave

Hello there, I thought I could help.. if I could seeing as I'm not a gay man. Just thought I could give my opinion I guess you can say.

1. I don't think a gay man would feel bad for kissing a woman, maybe a little odd, but I have heard of gay guys who do fall for girls and don't mind kissing them. In my opinion, it depends on the person.

2. Simple answer, yes. I've heard of lesbians enjoying gay porn.. men in general and doing that. Again, it's personal preference.

3. It's possible, but if it happens frequently I would guess they are bisexual or bi-romantic. Depends on the person.

4. Attraction is difficult to explain I think since it differs from person to person. Like myself for example, I don't feel sexual attraction to either gender, but I feel a type of attraction to women. Like I find them adorable and can admire them as you would a piece of art. Attraction is different for each person.

5. Gay men don't fear being touched by women, they aren't repulsed by them. There is just no attraction sexually.

6. Sorry, I have nothing to say about this one.

There is no right answer to these questions, seeing as it differs from everyone. It depends on the individual and really if you don't wanna label yourself then you don't have to. However, the only one who can tell if you're gay is /you/. Just take the time to figure it out, it's not something you can look up online. Just wish you luck on figuring it out.

 

I can only speak for myself, and considering I identify as a lesbian, this may not be helpful to you. However, I will try.
First thing: not everyone is the same. Therefore, people can be turned on by different things or dislike different things. Everyone is different. Since you made the questions, though, I will answer them as best as I can.
1. I generally have no interest in kissing guys. It's not like I'm disgusted by the idea, but I just don't feel like I want to kiss them like I do with attractive girls.
2. I do not really like pictures of guys, but women in bras, yes (lol obviously). However, lots of lesbians like gay porn or straight porn or anything else. What you masturbate to does not necessarily determine your sexuality.
3. You can fall in love with a woman and still identify as gay. You could be biromantic, meaning you want a relationship with women but no further.
4. You define attraction. I find attraction is when I want to kiss, cuddle, be with or get jealous when someone talks to someone I'm attracted to. That's how I measure my feelings for girls, really.
5. I do not fear being touched by a man, however I would not like to be touched by one. Anything really physical with a man I am not fond of.
6. I'm not really sure. It's probably just a fetish.
No problem for posting this much. You needed to get it out somewhere.
I hope I answered some okay for you. The important thing to remember here is EVERYONE IS DIFFERENT. Feelings are complicated, however I would say you are pretty straight, if not a 2 on the Kinsey Scale.
Feel free to explore your sexuality when you are ready. However, if you are happy identifying as straight, then identify as straight. Whatever you are comfortable with.

 

As a gay guy who tried to be straight for quite a while, I'll offer my thoughts.

1. No. I made out with my ex girlfriend all of the time. I never felt bad about it. I didn't feel turned on by it, but I didn't feel grossed out. The thought of kissing a guy used to bother me, but that was because I had a lot of internalized homophobia. Now I want to kiss guys, but that's taken time to realize.

2. I suppose I *could,* but I wouldn't enjoy it. If I tug on my dick enough and in the right way, something is going to happen. I prefer to masturbate to gay porn because I find guys attractive. That actually helps me get off. Victoria's Secret doesn't.

3. I love girls as friends, but I do not get romantically in love with them. Looking up to a guy doesn't mean you're in love with them.

4. For me attraction is about how a particular gender makes me feel. I can recognize an attractive girl, but all I think is "she's pretty." I don't want to like have sex with her. I just recognize that she is pretty if that makes sense. With guys, I see that they are attractive and am just like "LET'S BANG!!!" That's the basic difference to me.

5. Nope not at all.

6. Just a fetish. Definitely not a gay thing.

Don't feel bad about posting here. We love to give advice! That's why a lot of us are here. If you have any other questions for me, just ask

 

Never kissed a woman, but wouldn't feel bad about it any more than I would feel bad about kissing a piece of furniture. Since I'm not going to feel attraction for a woman any more than I would feel for my coffee table.

Everyone's different so some guys probably can, at least sometimes. I'm not one of them, however.

I've never fallen in love with a woman. Where women are concerned there's simply nothing there on either a sexual or romantic level.

Not sure what you mean here. There are certain male traits I find attractive, or more attractive in a sexual way.

Unless they are intending to cause me harm, there's no logical reason to fear people touching me. So I don't. I disliking being touched without my permission (whether by males or females), but when it happens it triggers an urge to attack and harm, not a feeling of fear.

As others have mentioned, this is just a fetish, not connected to orientation.

Hope this helps,

Todd