Okay, so I'm only interested in girls. I've never really liked boys, and I identify as lesbian. But I only really like girls once I've gotten to know them. Like, I only really feel attracted to someone if I like their personality. For example, I was indifferent to this one person until I got to know her. I liked that she was quietly confident, and a bit quirky. And after that, she just seemed really beautiful. It was like her personality changed the way I saw her appearance. I was wondering if anyone else is like this, or if there's a word for it?
I didn't even know that was a term But if so, then I am homo-demisexual. I think for other people though it would be easier to just keep it simple. But thanks