Hi! I've been completely confused about my sexuality since my sexuality changes every week. One week i'm completely into guys, then both by the next, then completely into girls, etc. Why is this happening? Is it just hormones? Am i just confusing attractiveness with something else? Is this common? Sorry for the many questions and thanks in advance!
When you start questioning your sexuality it opens a world of confusion. I did not really until I fully accepted myself as gay why I was confused. The confusion when through a vicious cycle starting when i was in 7th grade going from bi to gay to thinking it is a phase back around again until I finally accepted myself as gay. Describe your attraction to both genders? What caused my confusion is that I thought when I saw a beautiful woman and admired her for it I was attracted to her. When I got older I realized that their private part were not attractive to me at all and i mistaken attraction for a simple admiration for a woman's beauty. I never understood why guys loved women with big breasts. I also "crushed" on girls with small breasts and never good look at private parts while experimenting with porn. It disgusted me and I did not fantasize about it. I hope this helps you out with the confusion.
I've been going through phases so long, the confusion feels natural. One day I think I like guys, and the next I think I'm straight with anal masturbation habits.lol I think its about being honest with yourself.
Have you considered that you're bi? I totally understand these things are hard to accept as I'm in the process of trying to accept it myself. I'm bi and I go through periods where I like guys more or where I like girls more. Right now I'm in a period where I'm girl crazy but if you could hear inside my mind when I'm out in public, one second I'm thinking how dreamy some random guy walking by is, and the next I'm swooning over some girl. At first it was extremely confusing for me but I'm starting to love it for what it is--not everyone can be attracted to both sexes and since I'm wired to like both, I have the opportunity to enjoy the best of both worlds (responsibly of course)! I'm not saying you're bi--only you can figure that out--but you might want to think about it. I definitely understand how you're feeling as I experience it every day!
I have a hard time understanding the difference between fluid sexuality and bisexuality so I myself am not sure, but I'm sure someone else here could help!
