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Hopeless... HELP !!!

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by daftgurl, Mar 19, 2014.

  1. daftgurl

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    I have a boyfriend we are together for 3 years, I really love him, but I'm very confused. There is one girl I met one summer two years ago, and I felt like she was my soulmate... She is my age, and we are like a same person in different bodies. The thing is that I haven't seen her since then, but I think about her every day, I dream about her every night... I still remember her face, her smell, her voice and our moments, like it was yesterday.
    We live in a different countries 1000 miles apart. I know her full name, her birthday, her address, I know where she work and where she study. Sometimes I wanna buy a ticket and go there just to see her face again. I don't know if she has a boyfriend, girlfriend, married, children... I'm hopeless, so I need an advice, what should I do ???
    P.S My boyfriend doesn't know that I'm bi... And he will never understand me if I told him, couse I live in a very conservative society :frowning2: .... I'm dying emotionaly !!!
     
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    Girl you got one life to live live it for yourself buy that ticket
     
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    Hopeless romantic aren't you? Same here. I'll second that vote!
     
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    Hey girls thank you for encouraging me to do that... But, what about my beautiful relationship, my boyfriend's feelings... I don't wanna hurt anybody, but I guess I'm hurting myself :frowning2: What if she is not there, or she is married ??? I will end my relationship for nothing, or maybe just seeing her again will confused me even more. As I said I haven't seen her for two years, maybe she is a different person now. I have too many thought right now. I guess I'm just a hopeless romantic... Cheers to that !!! :slight_smile:
     
  5. rainmustfall

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    Love like that only comes once in a lifetime. Seriously, I would think long and hard before passing up that chance. If you are right, it's worth all the pain in the world.
     
  6. daftgurl

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    So I guess I'm gonna buy a ticket and go there...:slight_smile: But first I'm gonna think what should I tell my boyfriend... I wish I could have some relative or friend, so I can go visit them, or business trip, then it's gonna be easy for me... But now I should think something...
    Thanks for your advices it means a lot to me :*
     
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    I think go. If you've thought about her that much. Do it!!!!

    Regarding your boyfriend. I know this is not usually good advice but best to lie and protect yourself. Come up with some excuse... He'll never suspect it anyway.

    Good luck!!!!
     
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