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Desire to have sex but not turned on...

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by browneyedgirl, Mar 22, 2014.

  1. I'm married to a very sweet man who I love dearly, but I don't seem to be happy in my relationship. I think I would rather be with a woman. The only issue is I've been with a number of women before I got married and I honestly did not like the sexual part of the relationship. I was never turned on or able to have an intense orgasm - it was always very week and "empty". The sex with my husband is amazing and even better when we are connecting emotionally.

    But lately, my longing to have some kind of a relationship with a woman has become very intense. I do have a desire to touch women but its just not passionate like with a man. I'm all there romantically though. I can picture my life with a woman and not with a man anymore - and that's the major problem.

    What if I leave my husband and I make a mistake?
     
  2. AmiBee

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    You sound like you might be a biromantic heterosexual. I guess it depends on how important a hot sex life is to your relationship.