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To bi/gay guys out there!

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by Mehmeister, Mar 28, 2014.

  1. Mehmeister

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    Hey, how is it that you approach a guy that you like about your feelings?
     
  2. 19EmKay90

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    Not an easy thing to do because he may not be gay or he may be still in the closet. Outside of gay bars it's not really a common thing for a guy to approach a guy and that's why online dating is very popular for gay guys.
     
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    With bravery. :slight_smile:

    All love requires, I've found, is an ounce of faith and a touch of kindness. :grin: Be confident, happy, wise, but most importantly-- be who you are.
     
  4. Mehmeister

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    i guess, but i live in a very anti LGBT area
     
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    I would say to just approach them and start a conversation. It's not like you have to come onto them straight away. Get talking about anything, gauge what type of person they are and if they are likely to be available to you.
    Just keep up a friendly conversation and if they are interested in you, it should show through. Try not to let on too early on how you feel. You just have to take it as it comes.

    Hope that helped a little

    Happy days :slight_smile:
     
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    Casual conversations are the first step to establishing any kind of relationship, whether platonic or more than that. Once you've established a frienship, then you can go on to gauging his reactions to your sexuality or more than that. But don't rush things; get to know him first and make sure that you've already established something.
     
  7. Mehmeister

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    thanks all! i think im going to have to sit this one out though because i don't want to risk destroying our relationship.

    Thanks!