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Does kissing indicate sexual orientation?

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by Alpha78, Mar 31, 2014.

  1. Alpha78

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    Does it? Every kiss I have had with a girl had grossed me out. Could it be because of the situation it was in?
     
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    try kissing a guy,it rules dude:kiss:
     
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    Did she brush her teeth? Did she have too much make up on?
     
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    Id believe so. I wasnt really grossed out based on that.
     
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    then what is the reason? :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes: maybe it was in public and you were embarrassed?
     
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    Kissing is probably not a good way to determine your sexual orientation.
     
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    Kissing is start stage of sex. It indicate our sexual orientation.
     
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    If you like kissing boys and not girls then yeah
     
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    I think your fantasies generally are a better indicator. I almost entirely think about guys, and I've only kissed guys; so I consider myself gay. If you have (and enjoy) fantasies about women, but don't enjoy kissing them, you may not have found the one for you. Again, I consider what you like/are attracted to/fantasize about better ways of determining your orientation than who you kiss, but no one can really tell you that but you. Just go with the flow man. :icon_wink
     
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    ahem, that depends on where you kiss :icon_wink

    But seriously, kissing determines romantic orientation, but if you want to take it one step further, and like it obviously, than yeah, it does. That being said, have you ever tried kissing a guy? Knowing you don't like one thing doesn't mean you will like the other/another.
     
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    I enjoyed kissing girls but boys were a lot more fun! Maybe it was the appeal of the forbidden fruit.
     
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    ^THIS. I dunno maybe because I like kissing in general.
     
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    For me (demisexual bi) it didn't mean anything. I thought that I was a lesbian because all the boys I kissed in HS (passionate kissing) felt wrong, and kissing my girlfriend felt right. The problem was I barely even liked most of the guys I dated, much less loved them. I enjoy kissing my BF, just as much as the same sex relationships that I've been in. I can't say I'd feel that way with other guys. And no, he didn't turn me straight, my attraction to him is despite him being a guy, not because of it.
     
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    I love kissing men and women both. Passionate, sexual kissing, but it’s only kissing men that turn me on to a point I want to have sex with that guy. This never happens with a women. Just no sexual desires to have sex with a woman no matter how hot the kiss is between us. So I think a kiss is a kiss and not an indicator of sexual orientation.
     
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    Well... before reading other replies here I would have said yes, because kissing guys never felt even mildly good for me. But I guess it doesn't work like that for everyone. You'll have to find out on your own.