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Turned on by straight sex?

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by sorryladies, Apr 9, 2014.

  1. sorryladies

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    I'm very turned on by straight sex, especially amateur porn. I know I'm gay because I primarily focus on the guy, so that's not the issue.

    The issue is...when I see a hot guy in my daily life, my mind doesn't go to me fucking him, but more so imagining him fucking a girl. Why is this?

    I'm still a virgin but consider myself a top cause that's what appeals to me. But in any porn I always look at the top and his expressions get me off, never the bottom. I think maybe it's because my perception is a lot of gay porn out there is straight guys not really enjoying themselves but doing it more so for the $$$ and in straight porn and amateur the guy is really enjoying himself.

    IDK exactly how to explain it but the thing that gets me off the most is just the raw, uncontrollable, almost 'animalistic' sexual energy that straight guys exude. I feel like gay men bring more thought and sometimes emotion into it and I like that 'predator/prey' aspect and the out of control hormones that young guys experience. Maybe it's because I've never experienced it, who knows...

    Any insight would be helpful. Thanks!
     
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    I 'm lesbian but enjoy watching anyone have sex I love watch gay armature porn sometimes straight It gets me off I like .
    But one thing I always say is porn is a terrible indicator of sexual orientation . If I were using porn to figure out my orientation I would be pansexual . I also have a porn addiction and have been trying hard to stop , but I've been relapsing . :rolle: sigh
    But one thing I've been looking up is this site called your brain on porn and what happens when you watch porn a lot and you watch the same type of video gene you associate what you see with sex doesn't mean your into but you associate it because the videos you watch makes you release a lot of dopamine and the more you watch porn the more you get that dopamine high which of course you will associate with sex causing you to thin of those videos you watch that get you off .
    I even thought I was bi because of the porn I watched i would always tell some people well just online I only like guys when it comes to porn in real life not at all but I only like them and get turned on by them when they are screwing another guy . That's how I know it's terrible to use porn to know your orientation because i'm one of those people that get turned on by anything . I was even thinking of changing my label to pansexual one time man if i went so far I would have thought damn I just found out I'm lesbian and didn't even know myself at all .
     
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    Yeah, I honestly can't even watch gay porn unless it's amateur, they never seen to be enjoying themselves otherwise. I watch a lot of strait porn which is why it took me so long to admit I am gay.but just like you sorryladies I always watch the guy, on the soft core stuff I stare at the genital area hoping to catch a glimpse of his [cough]penis[/cough]. I now know that I'm gay but I'm still afraid to come out.
     
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    Lately gay porn hadn't been doing it for me either this might be the reason I have been watching mostly amateur . I promise I've been trying to quit it's just really hard :bang:
    I need to get a porn blocker :dry:
     
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    Don't feel bad the genitals want what the genitals want.
     
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    If that was for me thanks buddy :slight_smile:
     
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    It was and your welcome
     
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    I totally agree here that porn is not an indicator of orientation. I mean, there is a difference between watching 2 people having sex and envisaging yourself having sex.

    For example, I have no interest in watching gay porn. But I could have an intimate relationship with a guy. Or as another example, some people may like watching BFSM porn but would not engage in that activity themselves.

    Orientation is about who you like and are attracted to, not what you like to watch.

    Happy days :slight_smile:
     
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    I get turned on by straight porn too.. But I always watch the girl.. The nice body.. sexy voice.. *sighs* As long as there is a girl in it I watch it.. But I have actually got turned on by gay porn too? Which is really strange. I don't think sexual orientation has anything to do with what porn we watch.
     
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    Have you tried watching bisexual porn? The 2 guys and a girl action? Always turns me on than just plain straight or gay porn lol
     
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    No matter it is straight gay or lesbian. Porn is porn and sex is sex and I get turned on by sex. End of story. :grin:
     
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    I watch both, the only thing that puts me off straight porn is the noises the women make! Also the camera shows the breasts too much, I don't wanna see that!
     
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    You're crazy! those noises are the sexiest sounds on the planet!

    But I can understand in a way because the guy moaning usually ruins it for me too. :lol:
     
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    Yeah I like it, I pretty much just focus on the male coupling though
     
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    Being honest straight porn the guy is usually...unattractive. I haven't found a straight video where the guy was hot...so the girl is the only one to focus on. Its not the sex, it's the scenario, I love a bit of kink ha-ha
     
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    Haha, exactly! Not crazy, just gay! :lol:
     
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    Hahaha, I was about to say the same thing, that's the best part! But yeah the guys usually ruin it for me too so it's all a matter of preference I suppose :lol:
     
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    I've only seen one where the guy was hot and that was the last of that kind I've ever seen .

    I use to watch old people having sex but like gay old men and even like old lesbian but they were like 40 year old lesbians . but the men were real old like granddad age I only watched because I would think Wow you still think about sex and have sex at that age , it must bring back memories for them when they were young and had sex. No wonder there's an std problem in the nursing home :confused:
     
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    :lol: I know right!