Hi everyone, At the moment im trying to figure out if im bi or gay. Im 14 and have been questioning this for quite some time now. I think that im gay but then why does straight porn or just looking at nude girls still turn me on? I cant really imagine having a real relationship with a girl but im curious I think romantically im much more attracted to guys but sexually, I find that sometimes im attracted to girls. So what am I? Thanks for answers.
Hey! You know, sexual and romantic attraction, although commonly linked together, are different things. Can you imagine yourself having a sexual relationship with a girl without any romantic attachment? If so, you could be homoromantic but bisexual.
You're most likely predominately gay; kinsey scale 5. Quite a few gay people would consider themselves "sometimes attracted to girls", but it depends. If you aren't turned on by the opposite sex on a daily basis, then you are not bi.
Don't feel pressured to label your sexuality or attractions. You're young! Spend this time just exploring and enjoying yourself. From what you have said, I would say you're a homo-romantic bisexual. Like I said though, don't worry about labels now..
