I find myself liking either guys or girls. Rarely I'll like both of them at the same time. I randomly flip my sexual orientation, day to day, sometimes hour to hour. Some times I will like only guys for a while, then only girls. I don't have split personalities or anything, its just my sexual preference. I've just considered to be bisexual because of this. Its horrible because I had a "guy friend" on Kik, and I left him just because I wasn't really interested in guys at that moment. Does anybody have this problem? Am I just crazy? NVM, I'm crazy for many other reasons. lol But seriously, does anyone have this issue? Does anybody have any advice? :help:
Hey there, I'm going through a similar situation, although my attraction to guys in most cases outweighs my attraction to girls. The thing about humans is that we're very complex. We're sporadic and dynamic, always changing. Whether it's what kind of food we like, our friends, or those we are attracted to, there's never anything definite, or at least that what it appears to be. My advice to you: just keep doing what you're doing. Someday you'll find someone who will make you not have to worry about things like that, and when they do, whether they're a guy or a girl, there will be no reason to worry about your sexuality because your feelings for them will never change. And the cool thing about being bi (in my opinion, at least) is that you're not limited to just one gender, there are plenty of fish in the sea, so you can keep looking until you find the right person. There's no reason to beat yourself up over it. (*hug*)
i think you may be bisexual, which can be great! be bisexual can also improve relationships like i have a friend who knows im bisexual and she will ask my opinion on guys and we have a laugh. but yes, sometimes its this and sometimes its that. Hope this helps!
The problem is you are 14 years old lol. JK. But seriously, don't think too hard about it. Do whatever feels natural. You are so young, you have plenty of time to figure this out. I think its a little early to tell but the signs are leaning to bisexual.
Thanks, I just thought of something while I was bored. Labels are pointless, 2 people (or more) can meet, do whatever they want, and be happy. Just thought I might share that. Anyways, thanks. I think I'll just stick with bisexual until I learn more about myself. lol Also, I was wondering. Could the word fluidly bisexual be used to describe this? I dont care for labels, but they make things easier. P.S. Thanks for the other replies too
Honestly I wouldn't worry about it too much. its just ur prefrance. maybe consider PANSEXUAL?? idk but u r who u r and OWN it! ive been in ur situation before and, me personally, I grew out of it (so to speak) eventually and I am extremely happy with who I am and who im spending the rest of my life with. I identify as a pansexual now because my fiancé is trans. (ftm) before he came out to me I identified as a lesbian. so don't worry, its just a part of finding out who you are!
Well, I could see myself with a Transsexual, Androgynous, or Genderqueer. So, I may be pansexual. I think I have thoroughly confused myself now. I'm gonna go ponder my own mind, I'll tell ya what I come up with.
im bisexual but liking males is more then females but now again I will only like females. being bi is like being single its fun, flexible and painless
Well, it is. Unless you try to get in a relationship and your orientation randomly changes for a while. Just like she said:
