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Hetero-romantic?

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by FireSmoke, Apr 12, 2014.

  1. FireSmoke

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    Hi :slight_smile:

    I'm thinking about some things. Let me explain better:


    I love girls, I adore body's girls, I adore to have sex with an hot girl. And I wonder "Could I be a very close friend of a girl?".

    No.

    Because when I'm a close friend of a girl, a very close friend, sexual attraction shows up and then I would desire to have sex / get engaged with her.


    And about guys?

    I don't like guys, I dislike body's guys. And I wonder "Could I be a very close friend of a guy?"

    Absolutely, yes.

    "Could I feel romantic feeling toward a guy?"

    Here is it my doubt. What is the difference between being a close friend and feeling romantic feeling towards a guy? Isn't a true friendship already a platonic love, in general? Or am I just confuse?
     
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  2. Dryad

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    Romantic feeling is when you want to hold hands and cuddle and kiss their chicks and watch them sleep and think of songs that remind you of them and get butterflies in the stomach when they talk to you etc. :grin:
    Can you imagine yourself doing this kind of things with a guy?
     
  3. FireSmoke

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    :roflmao:

    Absolutely not! :grin: I can imagine only I cuddle him but only like two close friends, such as I'm his brother.
     
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    I was too discriptive. :lol:

    So, you don't have romantic feelings towards guys. :icon_wink Never say never, though... :lol:
     
  5. FireSmoke

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    Uhm, I think you're right. Guys just are not my thing :grin: