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I believe I'm a lesbian

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by Sherlock142, Apr 15, 2014.

  1. Sherlock142

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    I've been thinking abut it for a while and I strongly believe I'm a lesbian. I never feel right in a relationship with a guy and I keep 'falling' for girls. This will sound odd, but I have a boyfriend (not been dating long) and I knew I was possibly a lesbian. Now what do I do ow that I strongly believe I am? He's a nice guy but it's just not working out. I'm scared that something bad will happen, please help me. Thank you :slight_smile:
     
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    Well dumping him is bad, for him, but you need to be honest with yourself and do what's right for you. You'll never be happy if you go through life trying to please everyone else.
     
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    I'm in the same position now as you are. I think you should talk with him and tell him how you feel if you trust him enough and you said he is a really nice guy :wink:
     
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    The longer you wait to dump him the more of both his and your time that's getting wasted. It's hard, but has to be done.
     
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    I agree the longer wait the harder it's going to be
     
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    If you think you're a lesbian (I certainly believe that you are one, if you say so) then how do you end up in relationships with guys? Why do you date them, why do you agree to be their girlfriend?

    Oh wait, you're 15.

    Just tell him - you're awesome, but we're not right for each other, I see you as a very good friend not a bf, etc. Relationships that begin at 15 end very soon anyway, it's not a big deal. Most likely he isn't madly in love with you either.
     
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    Thank you guys! I just really need that push of someone knowing. So thank you guys :slight_smile: