I recently had sex with a guy, but wasn't able to reach climax even though I was sexually aroused during the entire time (was erect from start to finish). It was my first time with a guy, and I can say that I liked it, but not being able to ejaculate was kind of a disappointment and confusing. What could be the reason for this? Has anyone else experienced this?
I can't say I have personal experience with this, but maybe I can provide an analogous situation? I've read up on a lot of post-op transgender first time sexual experiences, and many don't reach climax for quite awhile. relating back to this I think it's just the unfamiliarity of the whole thing. you may not reach climax the first time, second time, etc., but you'll eventually work up to it if you do truly enjoy it.
Got tired I suppose. We were doing stuff to eachother for like 3 hours all up. Like I said, I was fully erect and aroused by it all. Loved the touch of another male, but for some reason I couldn't blow.
Very common. Orgasm and ejaculation (which are separate, btw) are as much psychological as physiological. So it may well be that you are simply not completely comfortable yet with being with another person. Another factor can be how you masturbate. If the way you stimulate yourself when masturbating is substantially different in terms of sensation ( meaning, a lot faster/harder/etc) then you are conditioned to orgasm to that stimulus. Practicing masturbating in different ways can often help.
