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Can a gay guy like feminine men?

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by lookintomyeyes, Apr 20, 2014.

  1. lookintomyeyes

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    Can a guy who is 100% gay like feminine men?
     
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    Of course~ if they identify as a boy then you are dating a male which means its homosexual ^.^
     
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    Yes. If you identify as a man, and you like others who identify as men, that's still gay.

    And, I really really hope a gay guy and like feminine men, because that's pretty much what I'm going to look like to gay and bisexual men, as I have like no hope of passing... :dry:
     
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    Looking at your previous posts, you are still obviously attracted to women so i dont think you count tbh.

    ---------- Post added 20th Apr 2014 at 01:34 PM ----------

    If you look at my post, i said a 100% gay guy
     
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    Why doesn't his response count? The hang up for a lot of people with sexuality is not the gender identity or expression or presentation of the person, it's what they've got between their legs. Gay men don't want to have sex with women, regardless of how masculine some of them might be. Meanwhile, there are male-bodied people who love having sex with other male-bodied people who are quite feminine.

    I actually prefer my partners to be feminine.
     
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    I think they would. Personally, and since I'm bisexual, I just get turn off by overly feminine guys. Not trying to offend feminine gay guys or anything here, but if I want to be with someone feminine then I'd go with a girl, the same with a butch girl, I would instead be with a guy. I'm not saying that every bisexual is like this though. Everyone haves preferences, but if the guy is 100% gay then, yeah they can like them since they are still guys no matter how feminine they are.
     
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    why not? just as a straight guy might be attracted to "masculine" women.
     
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    Yes of course they can. I don't see any problem with it or why they wouldn't. It comes down to preference and what kind of person the individual is attracted to.
     
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    The reason it does not count is because he technically isnt gay. I was asking about gay guys not bi guys. If you look at his previous posts you can obviously see he isnt gay.. My question asks if guys who are 100% gay, would they be attracted to feminine guys?
     
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    I know of fully gay men who wouldn't be with a women who prefer feminine women just like a straight guy can like a masculine women. I actually prefer feminine men though to your "standards" not sure if I count because ideally I like men but I could date a female if I like her a lot.
     
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    Sure ,I have absolutely nothing against "feminine guys". However, I do think that we need to be careful here. Simply because a guy has some qualities on the feminine spectrum does not mean that's how he identifies, and there may be things that you don't know about a guy other than simply how he presents.

    For example, I know a guy who is 6'2", very masculine ordinarily, however occasionally likes to dress up in drag and go to drag shows. Based on that, what do you call him? Feminine? Masculine? Depending on the day? What I'm trying to say is that I don't think that it's fair to paint such a broad stroke of a "feminine guy" - there's quite the variation in gender presentation.