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Am I really bi?

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by dayday4, Apr 20, 2014.

  1. dayday4

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    Sexual Orientation:
    Bisexual
    So I'm not sure if I have a thing for women
    My sexuality is very fluid where some days I'm mainly attracted to males
    And others I'm basically running for my pride flag
    This changes between days to weeks to even months
    I recently have been saying im attracted to women because I am
    I feel happier around them, more comfortable, when I visualise a life in a relationship
    With a women a feel happy
    I want to be in a sexual relationship with a women and I can have what you'd consider
    To be crushes on girls since I was a kid, I think
    I've known I've been attracted to girls for along time but never really in a big way
    It was just sort of there
    Anyway what I'm saying is, is this normal?
    I don't go for guys in regards to dating or anything because I worry what if I feel attracted to a girl and want to be with her
    And I don't go for chicks because I think I'm lying
    Anything I've written in the past has been basically me going on about how much I like boys but don't want them to touch me
    My past boyfriend wasn't a good experience for me because I was just uncomfortable and tried to make the situation simply a friendship
    I get so attracted to me friends sometimes I can't even
    My porn watching categories fluctuates with my preference at the time
    Help me out here, am I really bisexual?
    I'm sorry if this is nonsensical I'm just alittle stressed
     
  2. Dryad

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    "I don't go for guys in regards to dating or anything because I worry what if I feel attracted to a girl and want to be with her
    And I don't go for chicks because I think I'm lying"
    :lol: this is exactly me most of the time
    Seriously, I don't know... You shouldn't judge from a single relationship with a guy though. Do you have crushes on men?
     
  3. Rumpletubb

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    If you are attracted to both men and women, you are bi. It can fluctuate a lot and that might or might not pass with confidence and age. As can preferences.
    I prefer males in normal cases but have been in a straight relationship for almost 5 years. Don't worry so much about earthly things, all you have to do is to follow your heart.
    That's the good part about being bi, sexes don't have a thing to do with our heart's desire.

    Hope you gain confidence and that your thoughts will settle!
    Love, from Sweden.
     
  4. dayday4

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    Thank you both so much for everything
    This confusion has only come back recently when I found a note for my friend
    A year ago stating that I was bicurious but not bisexual
    Recently I've been saying I am bi and I think, maybe I'm just panicking
    I do have crushes on dudes