Maybe you guys could help me find a better word for my sexual orientation. Because yes, to ME it's important to have a precise word to describe me... I'm agender. So if I say I'm gay, it would mean I'm only attracted to other agenders.. right? And being straight would mean I'm attracted to the opposite gender (which would be... pangender? XD) or simply other genders than mine?... I call myself polysexual for now because I don't have a better word. I love male bodies, (almost) regardless of the gender. Flat chests, penises. I'm disgusted my female bodies and genitals. I don't like boobs. Maybe there's a word for being attracted to the male body/testosterone! ... BUT!!.... I think I could be attracted to FtMs despite the genitals (if they'd have the top surgery), cause to me they are dudes and the testosterone makes the difference. So it's not aallll about the body... I'm really not comfortable using my genitals to determine my sexual orientation (same genitals as mine = gay, different = straight), because it would automatically gender me and I can't live with that. I do not belong with girls (from super girly to very tomboy) and I do not belong with guys (from super masculine to very feminine). But I precisely know what I'm sexually attracted to...
If you like men and virility in general (even regardless bottom surgery), you can define yourself as androsexual. If you like women and femininity in general (even regardless bottom surgery), you can define yourself as gynesexual. These words say only what you like/what you're sexually attracted to and NOT who/what you are. For example, I could define myself as gynesexual. Hope this helps
I do not like virility. I like very feminine male-bodied genders. And I find masculine female-bodied androgynous people quite cute as well, but I don't know if I'm sexually attracted to them
I do like androgyny a lot!! But I think it's more of a preference, like preferring skinny body to muscular body. I really don't like mucles :x
Because I still think polysexual is too vague and androgynous in a style (to me, not a gender) I'm agender, my lover is genderfluid, which both enters the umbrella term genderqueer... For fun, my lover and I say we are gay cause we're genderqueers loving genderqueers XD but I know it's not really exact either
