So i'm a bit confused as to what i am exactly... am i straight or bi or gay or what? Im 16, and unsure as to whether it's just a phase, but i sometimes find girls attractive, but also boys... I've only ever gone out with boys, and nobody knows that i feel this way. I really wish i didn't, because i feel like i'm not natural... what do i do? :bang:
:smilewave Hey Welcome to EC. Who knows, they could be the ones not normal!:lol: A lot of great people here willing to listen and to help. All you have to do is ask. I sure have!
The thing about phases is that a phase is a phase but sexuality isn't. Just like fetishes are fetishes. Life is too short about being unsure; live it and go with the flow. Make up your mind; you can, you know, and the sooner probably the better. some questions to ask: -Am I comfortable with my sexuality? -Is my sexuality my sexuality? -Do I want to make this decision? -Am I ready for it lol You're about as natural as any other animal out there... And by the way; why are you worried about being natural it's so overrated. So many people tell me when I ask them if they're normal, "What's normal?"
First, Welcome to EC. Second, keep in mind that "normal" or "natural" are subjective terms and mean different things to different people or groups. That said just because someone doesn't agree with your "normal" or your "natural" doesn't make it wrong.
