From the title you can tell I need help, serious help . I recently started telling people I was gay in a game I play, it might sound weird but that's not the point, I started liking to be gay, it felt good. I didn't ask anyone out or anything, no no, but now I'm confused, I think I've some very tiny, small, micro feelings for one guy at my school, but I also feel I have some for a girl. I don't actually know why I want to be gay, I guess I want to feel special, but I'm not sure Now, I have watched some porn.. :eusa_naug .. but anyway, both gay and straight porn. I get turned on when I watch straight porn but also when I watch gay porn, I do think I only like guys that look good, like for example "Harry Styles" from one direction.. I know there is no order here, like, you can't tell what comes in order in the text, that is probably why I wrote it down here, I want you to make it clear if you can. Please help me. :icon_redf And by the way, I am twelve.. sorry for lying about age.. but I really need help, I am desperate!(I don't need help because gay is wrong or anything, I just want answers).
You need to post this in the sexuality thread. This is the gender identity one xD But it sounds to me like you could be bisexual. But really, does the label matter? As long as you find someone one day who returns your feelings and with whom you really click with, would you really mind their gender? Just my say
I can somewhat relate (see this post). You will get a greater response posting in the relevant forum, FWIW.
Yeah you should've placed this in the Sexuality thread, so you might not get as many responses as you'd like. But you're only 12, things will come together with time don't worry! It is very possible that you can be bisexual or pansexual, and that's fine too. At the end of it all, labels are labels. You're you and that's all that matters. Find someone that you like who likes you back, whether they be a boy or a girl, and just roll with it. ^^
Ofcourse I don´t mind gender, but the problem is I am also scared if others do... I got bullied in school but when I beat their "leader" in a fight, they stoped, what if they start again, & by the way this Community seems awesome ^_^
There is no specific rule or formula, but I do think its normal to be questioning your sexuality when you are 12. When I was 12 I was already really into guys and it really messed with me. Most of my friends were already really into girls. If you like both guys and girls it is possible you are bisexual. About the bullies, try your best not to associate with them and especially no fighting as it will only make things worse!
Ty for the advice, allthough I'm gonna rework this thread, I wrote this kind of late so my new thread will have all details in order, if you don't mind checking that one out aswell I would be really happy! ^-^
