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Not knowing what sexual attraction feels like

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by ChromeNerd, Apr 28, 2014.

  1. ChromeNerd

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    I know that I've felt attraction, but it's hard for me to tell if it's sexual or not. Sometimes I get an urge to kiss someone and do stuff, but that rarely happens and it only seems to happen with a very specific type. I never actually get butterflies. I sometimes get random sexual thoughts about people, but they seem more like intrusive OCD thoughts than actual attraction. I just find it so hard to tell real attraction apart from OCD thoughts.