I am really stuck on my orientation because sometimes i think girls are hot ! (i'm a girl) but then sometimes i think boys are as well. I don't know if i just admire girls bodies though :/ I can only imagine myself being with boys but im scared of a relationship with any. Mostly down to a few years ago me and a boy doing stuff and he told everybody !!! I really enjoy flirting with boys and i dont flirt with girls unless its jokey but im really confused. Especially because i was just watching a short film about lesbiens and i got turned on :/ but i get turned on by the idea of lesbiens full stop. PLease tell me if i am just hormonal or something else. Also any advice on dealing with relationships would be nice ! x
Hello and welcome to EC! :icon_bigg First of all! I don't know what kind of short you were watching, but being turned on doesn't mean that much.. It doesn't really, there are for instance lesbians who won't get turned on by lesbian porn. It doesn't tell you anything. That being said, I don't really know how you define "hot". I can't tell whether you enjoy their bodies either eh. Are you hormonal..? Can't tell, don't know your age for instance. However, many of us want to believe "it's just a phase", where in fact, it isn't. I'm NOT saying this is the case for you, I'm simply pointing this out. (*hug*) Advice on relationships? I'm always very honest (sometimes too honest) and open about almost everything. Personally, I wouldn't even care that much if my girlfriend/boyfriend told anyone, unless I specifically told her/him not to do so.
