Any lesbians that like a little attention from boys ( middle school high school)

Yeah, I felt this way and I sometimes do even now. My biggest problem was low self esteem..

 

I always present myself as beautiful as I want, but being called pretty is a physical feature anyone can have. It's what's inside that truly makes a person beautiful.

 

I have low self-esteem, but I can't stand it when men hit on me.

 

I'm an adult, but even at that age I hated gaining attention from men. I actually used to try to look stereotypically 'ugly' so guys wouldn't bother me.

 

sometimes dear sister you don't want to be alone so you allow a gentlemen to comfort you and your pain naturally sometimes we love complements whom ever they come from or just to feel appreciated, and adored

 

This was me then too, except I wasn't allowed to do certain things appearance wise because my parents were religious fundamentalists.

 

Yes, to an extent. I have a guy friend who is super sweet and always calls me "darlin'" and while I don't usually get butterflies from it, it makes me smile and I enjoy the attention, though I know that I wouldn't sleep with him if given the chance. We're human, we enjoy attention, and if the guy is non-creepy then it's less of a turn off. I used to have this same question but I think it's completely normal, don't worry about it

 

That wasn't my assumption.

 

I don't like being hit on by men where they're trying to get something out of me, but I'm fine with regular compliments from anyone. I don't dress to impress so it makes me feel nice.

 

I use to like it because I have low self esteem and on top of that I have been taught by my mom that your value as a woman if guys are attracted to you . I like that the fact that a guy finds me attractive but I don't like the attention I wish I got it from women , it would be nice to have a lady flirt with me for once and one that wanted to date and have a relationship with me or even if she asked for my phone number .:icon_sad:

 

As a teen my choice of clothes and make up was more like an artistic thing than anything else because I made my own clothes and enjoyed the opportunity to display the finished pieces, so if a boy complimented my outfit I wouldn't mind but if he said I was pretty or something it made me a little uncomfortable because he was showing an interest in me. I was always unsure about wearing any skirt above the knee or any low cut tops in case males would try to come on to me. Also early on I got very put off by my dad's somewhat twisted views on the subject because in his mind all females (including underage ones) only dressed up if they were looking for sexual attention and all girls were like this, so from when I was about 11 he decided I was to old to want to play with kids toys anymore and bought me inappropriately revealing - and rather horrid - clothes (I never wore them) and a make-up set. Fortunately I wasn't in contact with him for most of my teenage years after that and my mum had much healthier views and actually has similar taste in clothes to me which was a relief because I don't know how well I would have coped otherwise.

 

Actually, yeah I do. I sometimes even flirt back, even though I have no interest in being with a man sexually or romantically.
It's good for my ego, it's relatively harmless fun .... and it's probably mean of myself, flirting with those poor lads who'll think they have a chance. Oh well..