I label myself as a lesbian and I believe that I am but there is a small doubt in my mind because I did believe I was bi for a couple years when I first started thinking about this. The main reason I thought I was bi is because I can see why guys are attractive and can find them attractive myself but the thought of doing anything with a guy kinda grosses me out. Any idea if calling myself lesbian is wrong (and I only label myself because I want to start coming out soon and I don't want to come out as lesbian and two weeks later say woops nope actually like guys as well now). Sorry that's kinda long and stupid. :icon_redf
If doing sexual stuff with boys grosses you out than your most likely just gay, you can think a boy is cute and not be bi or straight
No worries, it's actually natural & normal/healthy to question yourself once in a while I think!! Been there, done that.
I can find guys good looking too. It doesn't change anything Sexuality is about who you want to have sex with
Same problem over here! Dislike the labels! I just go with 99% lesbian with that 1% straight... My friends seem to think it's pretty awesome the way I switch from 'she's hot' to 'he looks good' despite knowing I'd never date him! In the end be who you want to be, nobody is going to judge you and also who needs labels!
