Is it possible to get an erection looking at straight amd lesbian porn, but not be aroused? It's like my body is preparing for sex, but in my conscious mind, I'm not thinking about having sex. By the way, I've tried watching gay porn, but that doesn't evoke any physical reaction..
it depends on how old you are . when you are very young you will get erection from anything that includes sex
Haha. No I'm 31 and really should have this figured out now.. It's like I can get physically prepared but my mind doesn't have the same enthusiasm. Why would I get an erection if my mind didn't want sex?? I've being thinking I'm asexual, but my privates parts aren't :-(
Maybe straight and lesbian porn feels more "normal" at the moment and the gay stuff seems a bit shameful, sinful, gross, wrong etc... Especially the anal stuff and some of the more extreme things. I think that's pretty normal if male attraction (finding them cute, handsome , appreciating the male body etc..) is kind of a recent thing for you. Or the acceptance of it at least. Maybe gay "soft porn" is more your style at the moment. Try not to lable the porn that you like as right or wrong (as long as it's legal of course). This probably doesn't help, but just a few things to think about. Peace be with you.
Porn is a pretty poor indication of orientation (lesbians who like gay porn for example) so don't worry too much about it. It could be that you are responding to the situations/behavior between the people rather than the genders involved.
