I posted a thread almost a month ago showing the start of my questioning. I've come to the conclusion that I do find some guys attractive but tend to lean towards women. This is due to the fact that I pretty much instinctively check out several women in public everyday but with guys its much less frequent. What I've noticed though is that ever since I accepted that I find some guys attractive, I've been spotting more that I can look at :lol:. Also, the idea of a relationship with a guy isn't revolting but I wouldn't exactly go out of my way to get into one either. It seems I'm apathetic about who I get into a relationship with, but I do picture women more often as my partner. Do you have any clue why I could feel this way? I definitely get turned on much more often by women when in public lol(yoga pants are like a gift from god), with guys they have to be showing some skin before I think anything sexual. Speaking about this, noticed that I get turned on when a guy reveals some skin(my favorite: when they bend forward and shirt pulls up to show lower back). What's weird is that this could even be a close friend(not even in the best shape) who I don't have any romantic feelings for but the moment he bends over I get struck with lust. Why is this? It's like one day I'm totally into chicks and lusting after them but another day I could be fantasizing about guys, only to keep alternating. So could it be that I'm Bi that has preference for women? Cause I'm attracted to a million different types of women in comparison to small subset of guys and honestly they're much easier on my eyes than majority of males(I like the cuter looking ones). Thanks for the help everyone :icon_bigg
Yup, you sound bi with female preference to me. If anything you prove as an example that male bisexuality can exist without it being considered gay :icon_bigg
I know sexual actions aren't what determines orientation but after viewing both straight and gay porn, I get really grossed out from gay facials. Though when its on a woman it still grosses me out a little but not as much. In addition, I'd be okay with anal sex(oral,penetration,etc) but the only thing that grosses me out about it is that it's associated with feces. If it was like a vagina meaning that waste doesn't come out of it then I'd feel much more comfortable. The idea of doing things with something that shoots out your food waste just grosses me out. So it's not the fact that it's "gay" but rather sanitary reasons.
And vagina's are better? May offend/what comes out of the other side: Spoiler I love it when people say this. FWIW: blood, urine and "other fluids" come out of a vagina.
Eeyup, you sound either bi or heteroflexible to me. Heck, we're in pretty similar boats, since I tend to like chicks more than dudes as well! :lol: There's nothing wrong with being picky about what you like with either gender, as long as you know you're attracted to some degree. And those swings you mention sound like the pendulum that bisexuals talk about a lot, one day you notice one gender more than the other, etc. As for your mention of anal sex, it sounds like your problems with it don't have anything to do with the gender of the person. From how you put it, it wouldn't matter if they were a guy or girl, you'd still find it a bit off putting. That's all a matter of personal preference, and doesn't determine your sexuality.
