I think I might be gay. I have accepted myself as bisexual for a while, and this is really hard for me, because, as many of you know, coming out to yourself is very hard. I don't want to have to go through that all again, but I want to be sure of my sexuality before I come out. Could I just be going through a "lesbian" phase?
If you are Bi, you don't have to like or be attracted to men and women the same. Most Bis have a preference of partner. This means that you could be more attracted to women, most of the time, yet still be able to have a loving and enduring relationship with a male also. They would just not be your first preference. A Lesbian is only attracted to women, and they may think a man looks handsome or attractive, they do not desire any emotional ties or long term relationship with them. I hope this helps.