Okay so here's the situation I had come out of the closet maybe 3 or 4 months ago and had been living life like normal. I had basically told everyone that asked that I was gay but after awhile I had met this girl who is a friend. But now I feel like I have betrayed everyone I told that I was gay and hurt a lot of people and pissed a lot of people off because I love this girl. To everyone else though I'm gay, any advice would help I'm so lost and confused about this is it possible or normal for people to come out and realize that instead of being gay they may be bi? I feel so stupid and unwanted now:bang:
Yea that's the thing I have romantic feelings towards her that's why I'm so lost and feel like I have hurt people because I feel like I betrayed people by In a sense lying about being gay I guess is how you could say it
You don't need to beat yourself over it. Labelling oneself is not a lifelong promise, it's how you feel things are at the moment so you didn't lie when you came out as gay. Btw having romantic feelings for the opposite sex doesn't necessarily mean that you're not gay anymore. You could be what is called biromantic. If that's the case I'd be cautious about pursuing a relationship with her because if you lack sexual attraction to women there's a huge probability that things will go awry sooner or later. How do you feel about being intimate with her?
So she turns you on and gives you an erection in these intimate moments? ---------- Post added 7th Jun 2014 at 03:22 PM ---------- Or do you just like the feeling of cuddling/kissing someone? There's a difference
It would have to be all of the feelings someone can really feel for someone else including the intimate feelings ---------- Post added 7th Jun 2014 at 08:18 AM ---------- Sorry if that didn't make sense either
