Well lets see. All of my friends are boys. :dry: In example:I have like 8 friends who are boys. 3 who are girls. Whenever I meet a new boy I immediately feel uncomfortable around him. :icon_sad: I wasn't molested or raped as a kid or ever, I just feel so much more comfortable with woman. Like listening and paying attention to a man freaks me out..... When I imagine a man in my mind I'm intimidated by him and when I imagine a woman I feel like she is sweet, compassionate and a caring friendly person.. I know for certain I'm asexual. :icon_bigg I am never sexually attracted anyone for that matter. I don't like making out, sex, none of that. But I do like love and can see myself being in a relationship with kisses and cuddling and closeness,etc. (!) So.... I feel like I'm leaning towards aromantic because almost everyone who hits on me I reject. :tears: I might be picky with guys because I just don't find most men attractive... And another reason I'm asexual I did find this one boy extremely hot I hooked up with him and boom, nothing. So I for sure know I'm asexual.... :eusa_danc I find a lot of woman attractive but I really don't know what my sexuality is. :tantrum: Theres a secret part of me that likes to watch lesbian porn and movies about lesbians because I guess a part of me knows that I have to find love somewhere. Right???? :eusa_doh: I feel like If a lesbian hit on me and I found her attractive I would call myself lesbian and call it a day but :bang: :bang: :bang: :bang: WHAT AM I?? Can't I be the aggressor for once? :tears: :help: What do you guys think? & sorry if this sounds bad but can you keep your responses to a minimum? I hate reading, lol. But I need help!! Aghh.. We can do this. (&&&). & p.s. Thanks a bunch!
Well...if you don't have sexual feelings towards any gender you would be asexual. If you still had emotional feelings towards the opposite sex you could be hetero-romantic. If you had emotional feelings towards the same sex you could be homo-romantic, or if you had emotional feelings towards both sexes, bi-romantic. I'd say you could be a-sexual, homoromantic, but that's just my opinion.
Sexualites are so complicated. You know your asexual, so that is good. (Hi-five, asexual friends ) What it sounds like is that you are an a-homo-romantic asexual. If you only want to date someone if you know them then maybe gray/homoromantic. There is also demi/homoromantic, which is kinda the same thing. There is also gray-a romantic. Let's just say that there are alot of different discriptors for sexualities. It does sound like you are homoromantic though. (message me if have some questions )
