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like or love?

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by confusedasever, Jun 11, 2014.

  1. thoughts on differences? having trouble figuring out what i'm feeling for a certain someone.
     
  2. Unkempt Harold

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    Might be less black and white than just like or love. I don't think anyone's really solved that mystery yet XD
     
  3. Jay47

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    Like= enamored with them
    Love= you would do anything for them, you can't imagine life without them, even when they make (big) mistakes, you still want to be with them.
    Like is a doodle in a notebook.
    Love is a potential for a future.
     
  4. wanderinggirl

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    It's hard to explain. In my experience, one of the differences is that "like" has been a bit of a selfish thing maybe; I think about having them and being with them, and once I realize that can't happen feelings die out. "Love" is more selfless in a way; I still want to be with them, but the feelings don't go away if feelings are unrequited; or at least they take time.

    Maybe.

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    Also agree with Jay47; love makes you more forgiving to someone's flaws, and like lasts only until you find their flaws.
     
  5. biffle50

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    Love is when you'd do anything for that person and can't imagine life without them. Liking someone is caring about them but wouldn't do "anything" for them.