So I'm in a committed, heterosexual relationship, but I've always considered myself bisexual, even though my experience with women has been shallow and limited. I've had crushes on straight girls, I've fantasized about being with a woman and I've been on a few dates but... maybe I'm too picky, but reality hasn't lived up to my fantasy. Do I only like women in the theoretical sense? My boyfriend is very supportive of me exploring this side of my sexuality, but how do you approach someone and say "I think you're hot, I'd like to see if I like women with you." No one wants to be that person, and I don't want to ask someone to be that person. I don't want to use someone, but I want to know... ..Thoughts?
I've actually been that person for several of my friends. Some of them are now committed lesbians. There was the knowledge beforehand that there would be no relationship between us because I didn't find a romantic partnership feasible, but it was still something that helped them out. Some friends might be willing to do that, some won't. It all depends on the situation.
